Losing or Not Losing Yourself in a Relationship

If a person loses him/ her self to another, they should remember how they thought before He/She lost him/her self; then, think that way once more. I have utilized this technique many times. It is completely successful.; even if the person loses o me due to sexual pleasures or love. I have had no problem with their memories being affected by the sexual or love induced incident. Complete restoration was possible when telling the partner to remember what was thought before knowing me, loving me; or even having any emotional states regarding me.